You start at a new job and you are on cloud 9!! Ecstatic even. Months later, when you've known most of what there is to know about the company, you feel things are a little lackluster. The high energy levels, gone. It is a task to go to work!! Did you take a wrong job? Did you listen to people's personal experiences and made them your very own and therefore knew [aka felt] that the place sucks? Did the employer over promise and under deliver? Why does it become mundane?
It happens in relationships too!! The first few months you are all over each other, every other minute you have something to talk or smile about. Some months down the line, not that your feelings change or anything but that 'thing' is no longer there [or so you think]. That's usually around the same time you start asking yourself does s/he love me?? Why doesn't s/he do/say the things they used to say/do? Admit it, you have wondered that at some point at whatever relationship that was. Where did the spontaneity and fun stuff disappear to? Why does it appear mundane?
Monday comes, you are supposed to be at school, work wherever. Tuesday, Wednesday Thursday oh the week drags slowly along. Sigh. Friday comes, after work, time to hit the club!! TGIF baby!! On the weekend -- look for something to do to keep you busy and not bored. So, Saturday run errands, see people, hook up with your man, nurse hangover's, hit the clubs again, have sex, go for a concert, stay in read a book or catch a movie.You know, whatever.you wanna do. Sunday comes and you're like Damn!! Tomorrow's it's back to work/school. And the cycle continues.
I guess this means, you gotta find ways to keep life interesting...
